anakinskydala:

i’m gonna start telling people that i live by the yoda philosophy, which they’ll think is something very wise, but really it’s that you try something one time and if you fail, immediately go into exile and never do anything useful again for the rest of your life

djjustbechillin:

prettyandmean:

a-smol-gayologist:

cozyhotpapi:

goldenpoc:

rubydat98:

zionsun:

badgyal-k:

princessfailureee:

caramelanin:

and patience

and compromise. and learning.

Giving up pride

^^^

And communicating.

forgiving what exactly?

Forgiving the fact that they’re people who are working through their past, like you, and will occasionally project their past traumas on you the way you might with them. Forgiving yourself, because growth takes time, and learning to be a pair is more work than just being on your own. Having partners you trust to forgive those moments where you might fall, help you back up and move forward, in my opinion, builds up the trust and love you need for a thriving relationship.

That last comment was beautiful.

Glad they clarified what we should be forgiving

😻this thread

Source: chrissongzzz

deadcatwithaflamethrower:

serakosumosu:

unconventionalbrain:

neurowonderful:

[Image: A screenshot of a post that says FATIGUE SCALE

10. Can barely move. Can’t talk.

9. Can barely move. Can talk.

8. Can move, but can’t do much more than watch TV.

7. Can watch TV and play a game on my phone simultaneously. 

6. Can do work on my computer lying in bed.

5. Can get around the house, but definitely couldn’t go out.

4. Can run a light errand.

3. Can get in my 10,000 steps for the day, making my fitbit happy.

2. Can do three or more activities in a single day.

1. GOING CLUBBING!

Blue text at the bottom credits the post to www.mistreated.org @MissKatieErnst

End image description.]

8 right now (2 earlier). Spent most of the past two years 3-4 on my good days and 11 on my bad days (11: completely immobile). Now I’m usually around a 2.

Also for those who haven’t seen it, the actually useful pain scale:

@deadcatwithaflamethrower

I don’t know if you’ve seen these pain/fatigue scales but maybe they’ll be useful to you or your followers? I know I find them helpful.

Charts to print out and carry with you to the doctor/hospital just for a more accurate chart than their fucking useless Pain Scale.

Source: spooniestrong

kvothbloodless:

caffeinewitchcraft:

tiger-in-the-flightdeck:

spillsnchills:

When a character doesn’t realize they’ve been, like, shot or whatever and they hand brushes against their side and comes away wet with blood, and they’re just staring at it like wtf is this and then their knees just totally give out on them and they sink down, maybe gasping a little as the reality finally hits them. That’s good stuff.

I see that, and raise you a character who knows they’ve been shot, but waits until the rest of their crew is out of sight to put their hand against the slowly spreading stain of blood on their shirt, then trying to steady their breathing so they can follow without letting on how injured they are.

Okay but like the character who doesn’t realize they’ve been hurt trying to see if everyone else is okay only to slowly realize that everyone is looking at them with mounting horror. Then they touch their side to find it’s wet and oh no

all 3 of you are evil but i admire, respect, and fear you

judas-had-a-crown:

Venom: I’m a bad motherfucker mmkay? I’ll eat HER head, I’ll eat HIS head, I’ll eat MY OWN head. I don’t care about anything or anyone so fuck this planet and fuck you in particular you’re sushi for the taking

Eddie: *walks in, stumbles and falls flat on his face*

Venom:

Venom: Look I’m the softest bitch you’ll ever meet all I wanna do is eat chocolate marry this human trashbag over there and have like six kids